fix(cleanup): Use correct expiration thresholds for API model cleanup

[mdtro]

Pulled from #82052 to break out these changes into smaller PRs.

• Update delete_api_models to use model-specific DEFAULT_EXPIRATION values
• Use API_GRANT_EXPIRATION for ApiGrant and API_TOKEN_EXPIRATION for ApiToken
• Fix potential over-deletion of valid tokens

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