Update pybind11 to v2.13.6

[darbyjohnston]

This PR updates the pybind11 dependency to v2.13.6. This replaces the previous dependabot PR that was not associated with a version tag.

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✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 85.00%. Comparing base (c0e97b0) to head (30b8e56).
⚠️ Report is 71 commits behind head on main.

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  Branches     4687     1206    -3481     
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- Hits        18709    11113    -7596     
+ Misses       2610     1778     -832     
+ Partials      922      183     -739     

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